I personally had a hard time coping with stress because I was not only stressed about my classes, but also the relationship with my friends. Even if some people were hurting me mentally, I kept them by my side and tried to be considerate no matter what. I was being considerate to people who did not bother to be considerate to me. This caused my self-esteem and confidence to deteriorate greatly. After I removed those people from my life and kept distance between myself and them, I feel much greater and happier overall. I now find joy in the smallest of events and enjoy life.
Stop comparing yourself with others
Especially in high school, it is easy to compare my life with others’ lives. However, I learned that there is no one living an easy life. Just as no one will exactly understand what is going on in my life, I would not be able to understand other people’s lives so I shouldn’t automatically assume that my life is so much harder than others’. No one wants to show off the hardships that they are facing, which is why it may seem like their lives are perfect, whereas in reality, they could be going through the hardest of times. This leads onto the next point which is to
Take Social Media breaks
Everyone has different sides to them; sides that they are willing to show and sides that they want to hide. Everything that goes on social media are just the happy moments of life. However, it is easy to be convinced that people are living their best lives just by looking at their posts. This could lead us to compare our lives with others, not considering the amount of hardships the others face behind the scenes. Yes, social media can be addictive and hard to delete. However, it is a great help to the mental health deleting it for a short period of time once in a while.
Have some alone time
Yes, being outside socializing is always fun. Feeling like you’re a part of something greater is always even better. However, there always needs to be a time where we take a time to reflect on ourselves and who we are. Before meeting new people, having a clear idea of who we are and learning to love ourselves is crucial. Otherwise, it is easy to feel lost and go through an existential crisis when meeting people. Always make sure to take a time to heal before making plans with people because no matter what, nothing is bound to be perfect and if we do not have a strong foundation before we face the problems, it is easy to be taken aback.
As people grow, their preferences begin to change and they stop liking things that they used to like in the past. Yes, it could just be a process of growing up, but I also believe that one of the major reasons for change is the surrounding people. This means that majority of the changes are not made because there was a sudden change of heart but because of what other people think. I faced many situations like this as well where I wore an outfit that I personally really liked, but once my friends told me their negative opinions about my fashion sense, I felt extremely self-conscious for the rest of the day and chose to not ever wear it again in public. I realized as time passed, however, that it is extremely exhausting to make decisions based on other people’s perspectives and opinions, in addition to constantly adjusting my own style to meet the societal standards. Here are a few ways to stop worrying about what people think.
1. Stop judging other people’s preferences
Not everyone cares about every little thing in life. In fact, the only thing that catches a person’s eye is what he or she is currently interested in or worried about. If you are self-conscious about one part of yourself, that means that is the way you view other people. For example, let’s say that you are self-conscious about your weight and you feel as though your thighs are way too thick. You worrying that other people will think you are fat based on the way you define to be “fat” means that you categorize other people as “fat” and “skinny” when you just look at them. If you learn to stop categorizing people based on your own perceptions and judging them based on what you think, you will soon realize that there is no reason to be self-conscious. Since at that point you’ll stop seeing reasons to judge others, furthermore not see why you should be judged and be self-conscious.
2. YOLO
It is a known fact that everyone lives once (at least it is the only provable claim). If you think about it, the time of our life where we can express ourselves and accomplish the most things is in our 10s and 20s. There is just such a limited amount of time to shine and live as you want. Yes, you can try to live your life when you’re older, but there will be less opportunities that are given and the situation will be much better if you try to accomplish the tasks when you are younger. That’s why there is absolutely no reason to waste the peak time of your life by worrying about what people think and adjusting to their perspectives. There are just so many different ways to enjoy life if we make decisions for our own happiness rather than for others. Therefore, since we have the one life to live, let’s live it to the fullest.
3. Have a moment to yourself
Trying to constantly live a life where you are surrounded by people, especially if you’re self conscious, may not be healthy for your mental health. This means that you will never be able to express yourself completely, always feeling unhappy and empty on the inside. Having a separate moment for yourself can be healthy and allow you to feel good about yourself again. Afterwards, you may realize that there is absolutely no reason to restrict yourself from feeling happy by trying to meet societal standards (unless that will break a law or negatively impact society). Stepping back a little to have a moment to yourself can be good to your mental health and could later change the way you choose to live.
When I was much younger and I heard many stories about how stressful high school life is going to be, I didn’t believe it. I constantly thought to myself, how bad could it possibly be? Honestly, high school itself isn’t the worst thing in the world. However, the major reason why so many students suffer (me included) is because of the inability to manage time wisely and procrastinate. What is the major reason for procrastination? Some reasons include laziness, sleepiness, technology, distractions, etc. Therefore, with all of these reasons, it’s extremely difficult to get back on task. Because I suffered from this issue, I tried to find many ways I can get start my work. These are some tips that I came up with that may benefit you!
1. Find a way to integrate your personal interest with your work
This is a very, very, very effective method to start being more productive and actually getting things done. For example, if you have been following with my blogs, you’d know that I own the samsung galaxy buds and had them for about a month now. Due to this, I personally try to grab as many opportunities that I can get to use my buds. However, in order to actually use my buds to listen to music, I won’t be able to watch YouTube videos, which is the place I spend majority of my time in. In addition, if I choose to do my homework or so while listening to music, I’ll try to focus as much as possible for a long time so that I can use my buds for longer. This actually proved to benefit my terrible work habits and got me to be a little more productive.
2. Just get to it
Yes, this is a very vague point, but I realized that the hardest part about work is starting it. By this, I mean that once we start, it’s very easy to stay focused and continue. However, once I start acting lazy and just roll around in bed, the thought of working definitely does not sound appealing. That’s why rather than starting the day off by scrolling around in social media, it’s better to do something that is productive so that the day isn’t started feeling lazy.
3. Make compromises with yourself
The best way to get motivated is if there is a prize at the end. However, no one should be expecting someone to hand them a gift after they do the work that they should be doing naturally. Therefore, it is important to learn to buy a gift for yourself after accomplishing a hard task since no one will truly understand the pain of working really hard other than yourself. This means that you should make promises like “I’ll buy myself this after I finish this assignment” so that there is more motivation to work. This method actually proved to be very effective for me because I actually like getting products for myself so it actually allowed me to work much harder.
4. Search up requirements that need to be met in order to reach a goal
By this, I mean that if you want to get into a certain university, make sure to search up what the school asks of you. The reason for this is because most universities have a pretty high expectation of the students that apply for the school. After reading the expectations and requirement, it will be much harder to just roll around in bed without worries. These requirements will probably cause your rest to be less comfortable and cause you to get to work faster. Although this is a cruel method, it is one of the most effective methods if you have a clear goal for yourself.
As a student who was the one to preorder the Note 9 last year and got it on the actual release day, I am aware that the next Note will come out in around two to three months. Due to this, majority of the device will have been manufactured and probably they are just testing for the remainder of the time. As a result of this, some of the changes that I want made may not be present in the Note 10, but the following are changes that I want made in the future models. This will include my experience with the Note 9 and what should be improved in order to benefit the user experience of the people who purchase the next model.
Camera
I’ll start off by saying that the camera is above average. So many of my friends want to take photos with my phone due to its outstanding quality both during the daytime and nighttime. However, there were a few things that I wish would change in the camera category; if these changes are made, many more people will be willing to switch over to Samsung.
1. Shutter Speed
Due to not many professional photos being taken on smartphones, the cameras that come with these phones are normally used for point-and-shoot scenarios where you just click the shutter and move on without putting in so much time and effort into making the photo perfect. I noticed, however, that there is a slight gap between the time when I press on the shutter button and when the photo is actually taken. As a result of this, I end up moving before the photo is actually taken, meaning that the photo ends up being shaken. This problem is the worst in low-light situations so I need to keep my phone still for at least 3 seconds in order for the photo to come out decently. Due to this, I’m hoping that the future Samsung Note models will have this problem fixed and decrease the gap that exists with the shutter so that the point-and-shoot photos come out well.
2. Color
Although the quality of the camera itself is good, there is a problem that exists within not only the newer phones, but most of the previous Samsung phones as well. The problem is that the photos tend to be very unrealistic and very different from the actual scene. The photos turn out to be more yellow-toned and brighter than what we see with our eyes. I do not want to make the direct comparison, but iPhone tend to have very realistic colors, which is one of the reasons why many people opt for iPhones. Due to this, I hope that the future models will have better camera optimization so that the photos come out more realistic.
3. Live Focus
The Live Focus was one of the main reasons I wanted to Note 9 and is also one of the greatest disappointments of the phone. The same problem is present in the Note 8, s9+, and the Note 9. First of all, in situations where the lighting isn’t very good, the Live Focus mode has a terrible HDR, and so turns the entire background white. This is when I just choose to turn the HDR off and use my normal Auto mode. Even when the lighting is good, sometimes, the edge detection is terrible and may sometimes even tell you that Live Focus mode isn’t available. There are a few moments when the Live Focus mode works, which makes the photo turn out amazing, but since there were so many disappointments that came with using the Live Focus, it is something that I want to see improved. The main improvements should consist of better edge detection and HDR.
4. Social Media
Social media may seem like it’s out of the blue, but I noticed that the quality is significantly worse when using social media on Samsung devices (almost all android devices in fact) than an iPhone. Using Instagram as an example, whenever I post a story using my Note 9, all the details are gone and it’s just not very pleasing to see. Also, when I send photos through the messaging app or through Instagram DM, the details are all gone and the picture gets sent looking very grainy, which is very uncomfortable when living in a world filled with interaction. I’m not exactly sure what the problem is, but there must be a way for these photos to be sent with a better quality.
5. Skin blur
The skin blur problem actually shocked me although I heard many problems about it. The main reason is because when I’m taking the picture, the photos look very detailed and nothing seems to be blurred. However, when I click on the result, I see that the photo turned out to be much more smooth compared to when I was clicking the shutter. I feel like Samsung planned to optimize their camera that way, but honestly, it brings more discomfort to the users and if anyone does want their face to be smooth, there are apps out their that they can use so don’t bring that feature to everyone.
Spen
The Spen is a very, very, very useful feature for a student like me. After I purchased the Note 9, I used the Spen so much that now I can’t imagine having a phone without it. It can be used to take notes, draw in my free time, and save paper. Some people may never use it, but it was such an important tool for me. The changes that I want made with the Spen is not the functionality or the usability, but more towards its design and durability.
1. Durability
In order to effectively utilize the Spen into my daily lifestyle, I need to use it very often. This means that I’d need to take it out of my phone and then take notes on my phone or do whatever I want to do with it. However, taking it out often means that there is a greater chance of dropping or bending it. The Spen replacements are not cheap. This means that we need to try to keep the original one as nice as possible. However, the Spen is so weak that it is just so easy to snap it in half. Honestly, there is a such a big gap in price between the Galaxy S models and the Galaxy Note models. However, the only major difference between these two is the Spen. If the user chooses not to replace the Spen, they will just have wasted a couple hundred dollars. If they choose to replace it, another $50 will be needed to be spent, but even then, that replacement Spen may break again, so money will be spent repeatedly. Therefore, for the next model, I’m hoping that there will be an improvement in the durability of the Spen by changing the material being used to build it or use any other solution that could help with the durability.
2. Secureness
The major reason people break their Spen is because of how insecurely the Spen is placed in the phone. I have a case in my Note 9 and all of my family members do as well. However, every time one of us drops our phone, our phone is perfectly fine due to the case, but the Spen almost always falls out. I’m not sure why it constantly falls out, but it could do with the clicky button and just its inability to endure impact. Since the pen just falls out when my phone is dropped, it can end up bent or broken. Therefore, for the next model, I’m hoping that the Spen will be placed more securely into the phone. Other than that, the Spen is such an useful tool that improved my life as a whole.
Design
Photo from Mashables
I honestly, really like the minimalistic design of the Note 9. There is no notch, hole, or anything that gets in the way in the screen and nothing gets cut off. Although it may seem outdated, I personally enjoyed it. However, I know that I must let go of having a clean display because future models are probably going to come with the Infinity O display (at least for a period of time until they figure out the best way to have a full-screen display). I do enjoy the Note 9’s design, but I also found that the s10’s design is very stunning so I’m sure that the complaints about the hole punch display will die down eventually. However, there were a few aspects of the design of the Note 9 that I found to be very uncomfortable that I hope would be changed in the next model.
1. Weight
The Note 9 is around 200 grams. Honestly, just carrying my phone for a short period of time is fine. However, if I need to use it for a long period of time, I start feeling pain in my wrist and my arm. The phone itself being 200 grams is not too bad. However, we have to remember that most of the people use cases on their phone; they normally use bulky, protective cases to protect their thousand dollar phone. With these cases, the weight of the phone becomes unbearable so I hope that Samsung can adjust the weight of the phone (although I know that it’s going to be made of all glass and the size is probably going to get bigger) so that there is less fatigue in the arms even with a case on.
2. Edge Display
Although the majority of the people have problems with the edge display, I actually was fond of it. Since I’m not an expert in terms of screen quality and so, I didn’t really notice many cons to having an edge display. In fact, when I was watching videos, I found the edge to let me be more immersed into the video and focus better. In addition, the edge display panel was very useful for me, especially for the quick call feature. However, the problem, at least for me, does not come with the phone itself; it comes with the accessories. Because of the phone’s structure and design, it was just so hard to find good accessories. Firstly, there is a huge restriction on the screen protector that I can use. I previously used many glass screen protectors with my older phones, but due to the curved display, majority of them did not stick properly with my Note 9 and so I had to settle for a liquid screen protector. However, the problem became that since my screen was less protected now, I needed to find a protective case. However, due to the edge display, so many cases come with very minimal lip for protection. I’m not exactly sure this problem is going to be solved, but unless there is a way to make better accessories for the newer phone with the curved edge, I’d say it’s a better idea to go for the flat display for a while.
3. Aspect Ratio
The aspect ratio of this phone makes the phone much easier to grip due to it having skinnier sides and a longer length. However, I found a few problems with this. First of all, when I want to watch my videos in full, parts of it get cut off. Another problem is that since this phone has a different aspect ratio as other phones, such as the iPhone, many America-based apps have the ratio aspect that matches the iPhone. As a result of this, whenever I’m using a social media app like Instagram and my friend with an iPhone sends me a photo, since the photo is sent from their aspect ratio, the photo comes to me by cutting the sides off. Because of this problem, I asked my friends multiple times to resend the photo for me but by backing the camera a little so that even if the sides are cropped I can still see all the necessary parts of the photo. I’m hoping that in the future Note model, although the aspect ratio may stay the same since the phone needs to get bigger, there is a better way found to interact with other non-Samsung models.
Final Words
I was fond of the Note line ever since the Note 2. There were many changes that were made since the original Note that allows the Note to be one of the most feature-packed phone present-day. There are many useful tools that come with the phone that drastically improves user experience. However, there are some downsides that may interfere with the usability of the phone. In this post, I discusses some of the problems that I noticed while using my Note 9 that I wish would be changed in future models. If these changes are made, I am sure that a wider spectrum of people would be willing to spend their hard-earned money on this phone.
Samsung has recently been setting the new standard for 2019 smartphones. Apple has been losing lots of money for their failure with their 2018 lineup of iPhones. That’s what every tech reviewer has been saying online. However, as a student who lives in an area surrounded by many high school students, I did not see a single galaxy s10 smartphone at school. In fact, I saw so many more people holding iPhone Xr, Xs, and older generation phones. This is what made me wonder…why do so many people choose iPhones over Samsung phones? Why do people gravitate toward the more practical phone over the one that offers so many features? Is it just bandwagon?
image from Android Authority
1. Airdrop
As a student, I see many people living busy lives. They have so many things to take care of such as extracurricular activities, grades, tests, and sports. In the midst of their busy life, having features that would be beneficial in terms of saving time is welcome. The Airdrop feature is extremely useful and comes in handy if photos, videos, or documents need to be sent to one or multiple people. As a result of this feature being so widely used, people who do not own an iPhone or Apple products are unable to “fit” with the others, causing them to start wanting to get an iPhone for themselves. Even I, who owns a galaxy phone, think that Airdrop is extremely handy when sharing photos and documents with each other.
2. iMessage
This goes hand-in-hand with Airdrop, but there are just so many features that Apple products come with that goes along with interaction with others, which appeals to many people. For example, iMessage is something that many students want. Now, if a “blue message” doesn’t pop up for the person, Android users are made fun of. Honestly, there isn’t much more benefits to iMessage. Rather, it’s more of a feature that people want than need. Since majority of the people use iMessage, the other students want to fit in, causing more people to want to own an iPhone.
3. Camera
Yes, Samsung phones also have great camera that is able to capture moments very well. However, there are very big flaws that the galaxy phone cameras have which the iPhone cameras do not. For example, there is so much motion blur and skin blur with Galaxy phones that makes the photos look less realistic. In addition, the colors do not match with the actual object; it makes it brighter or more yellow-toned. On the other hand, iPhones are able to produce very realistic photos that resemble the actual object that is being taken a photo of. In fact, the amount of details that iPhones are able to include with their camera is amazing. Since we live in a time period when social media is so widely used and camera quality is so important, the camera quality plays a huge role in the reason why people purchase iPhones.
4. Protection
iPhones, unlike Android phones, are very good at preventing viruses. Its long-term usability is amazing and it ages very well. Since it’s not very affected by viruses and other factors that could harm the phone, it makes usability much better, and more appealing to people who want to use their phones without worrying about it slowing down too much over time. In addition, the iCloud setup is so complex and there is not many ways a person could hack into an iPhone, allowing the users to feel safe carrying their phone around.
Conclusion
Yes, Samsung phones have gotten a lot better compared to the past. Yes, they are able to create new forms of technology that would shape the future smartphones that are being released. Yes, they have a lot of features that give the users a lot of choices when using their phone. However, the one factor they were unable to cover is one that is most important in the 21st century. They didn’t put as much emphasis on interaction and ways to improve it. Since online interaction is so important nowadays, Apple got it all covered, but there are still many flaws in terms of the messaging systems and just usability in general of Samsung phones. Therefore, if Samsung can improve in that area, many more people would be willing to purchase their devices.
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